These sites only exist to get your money, not to hook you up with quality couples and singles who want to experience the swinging lifestyle.They want to scam you out of money, and will set you up with people who have no interest in swinging with you.

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This is not to say that you shouldn’t swing with people that have never done it before.

New awesome swinging couples enter the community all the time, and it’s fantastic having new blood moving around.

Maybe they heard about the idea at a party, maybe they just saw that there was an option for “searching for couples” on their dating site and clicked on it for shits and giggles.

Some things you can expect from these dabblers: jealousy, awkwardness, uncomfortable behavior, and a lack of common politeness.

We pride ourselves on being welcoming whatever your orientation or needs, we've got support online to make sure any questions or concerns that you might have are always taken care of.

Maybe you're not sure if you really want to meet anyone, that’s okay too, you can swap pictures, chat and interact through our sophisticated online messaging system that always keeps your real identity hidden so you don't have to divulge anything until you're totally comfortable.A lot of people are worried before they start swinging.They think they’ll get scammed, or they’ll have personal issues, or they won’t enjoy it as much as they think they will. Swinging used to mean going to uncomfortable “meet & greets.” You’d sit there with your partner, talking to other couples, eating stupid little appetizers and making small talk, and knowing everyone was looking everyone else over, imagining them naked, and judging them.In our experience, most of these are totally unfounded—with the exception of the scam. That is a very old model of the swinging lifestyle. Compared to these sites, the awkward old meet & greets are more like blind dates, if you thought that you HAD to go home with someone at the end of a blind date. Essentially, a good swinger site should exist for your need, not for the needs of the web provider.Nowadays, it’s much more common for swingers, especially those just getting into the scene, to avoid those meet & greets. Even if you’re brand-new to swinging, you’ll be able to find a great swinging community online. If you get a good feeling from your website, that’s one of the first steps.Well is an online adult community that’s designed for you to meet and hang out with likeminded singles and couples.